August was a brutal month of travelling for us. We were away from our home more than we were in it - and we left Uriah behind more often than not. Our one-day-a-week Family Funday that I had great expectations for fell off the map sometime in July and we never fully recovered.
So here we are, school starts again tomorrow and the summer of great adventure is going to go down in Hefter Family History as the summer of mediocre adventure. And lots of travel. And lots of busyness.
We did not get to the Great Minnesota Get Together (aka: The Minnesota State Fair) but we did make an appearance at the Great Lake County Get Together (aka: The Lake County Fair). We sampled the offerings of the beer garden, saw some chickens, let a baby cow lick our fingers, rode some kiddie rides and had mini-donuts.
Abby lost her crap on the ride that drops you super fast. We could hear her screaming the whole way down. She begged to be able to meet her friends the following day - without parents - at the fair. I guess this is what growing up means - more friend time, less family time. We sent her off for the day with some money and the request to make good choices. I guess that's all you can do.
We took another mini-vacation to Leech Lake. Uriah, of course, worked. But we managed to get in a little family time on the "hontoon," as Finn calls it. Lots of fishing - no catching. Finn also learned to jump into the pool and even let me dunk his whole head under a couple of times...and by "let," I mean I just dunked him under a couple of times when I caught him. He learned to hold his breath! For as fearless as that boy is of the water, he needs to learn some basic swimming lessons soon!
Abby is awesome at being surly and 13. She brought a friend along on our Leech Lake vacation and then promptly slept on the pontoon/fishing excursion. Her friend, on the other hand, fished with Finn and Uriah. My mom's advice is always to stick my tongue to the roof of my mouth; you can't say anything when you're busy keeping your tongue stuck up there and it avoids a lot of needless arguments. I am getting awesome it and I remind myself daily that at some point she will grow out of this phase. Please let me be delusional in thinking that it won't take her going to college for her to become human. Teenagers...they think they know it all!
We had a bachelorette party for Sarah last weekend in southern Minnesota. That area of Minnesota is so beautiful. I should know, my pal Becca and I got lost walking on the bike trail for about 4 hours. It's clear I learned nothing from my years as a Girl Scout. No map. No compass. No idea where we were going. We are poster-children for what not to do in the great outdoors. Luckily we made our 10+ mile walk back to Sarah and she was only slightly annoyed that we left her sleeping in the tent. Without a note. And with the car keys in my pocket.
School starts tomorrow for Abby. I am very much looking forward to getting back into our routine and having some structure for our days. Finn is still too young for pre-school, and, let's face it, I'm not ready for him to go even if he was old enough, but he was insistent that he get a back pack when we went back to school shopping last week. He can wear it to the library, I guess.
Wedding week is upon us and then Uriah's parents are visiting and then it's our anniversary and my birthday. And then, you know...it's Halloween and Thanksgiving and Christmas. So, I'm really looking forward to January when the snows keep us home-bound for more than a few days at a time!
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